Most of our stressors were finances that first year while he was deployed only because he would write a c…

Most of our stressors were finances that first year while he was deployedonly because he would write a check or would spend money and if he couldn’t call me right away, I didn’t knowand then I find the check and go “Oh, my gosh, now what.”So, we had to come up with a system that worked for us and I just had to learn to be patient and not stress way out on him andlearn to control myself. Excuse me. So, it took some getting used to.